
So, January happened. And while we can put all of the expectation on January we want, we learned that January actually isn’t the best month for change, even if it is the most popular month to attempt it.
Truthfully, January gets a lot of hype. It’s a new year, and that means new goals. While none of the planning and dreaming is wrong, it’s just not the right time to execute. When we use January for the wrong reasons, we end up discarding February because January didn’t pan out as expected.
We give up on the month before it’s even begun.
That’s why we emphasized using January for cleaning and clearing rather than changing. When you do that, you build the capacity to use February instead of dreading it.
Instead of discarding February, use it as the month of taking off on the runway you cleared in January. It’s a month of taking action and starting the process you prepared. But doing so, at least, effectively takes charge.
Charge Your Body Before You Push It
Here’s a truth most people don’t hear: change doesn’t happen because you try harder. Change happens because you have the energy to try at all. February may be the month to begin making shifts and working towards your dreams, but don’t confuse that with dramatic overhauls or big life sprints.
Instead, focus on change in correlation with building capacity. Use February to charge your body battery so that you have the energy to take action.
Think of it like an electric scooter. If it doesn’t have charge, you’re left trying to push it, or pull it, or drag it along, when all you need is a bit of charge, and it becomes effortless. That’s what we want you to do for your body. To plug yourself in, fill your energy tank so that the changes you make become more effortless, and you stop trying to fight your way through life.
Here’s the reality: one small, intentional action builds momentum, and that momentum becomes sustainable change. Charging your body is steady, intentional, and surprisingly easier than forcing growth. It’s the difference between energy flowing and energy draining.
Breaking Up With Hustle Culture
Hustle works against the concept of capacity. Hustle culture tells us that the secret to results is more work, more discipline, more grind. But hustle is borrowed energy. It feels good in the moment, but drains you over the long term. Charging, on the other hand, is self-generated. One charged choice, to fill your body with energy, leads to another. In the process, momentum grows naturally.
It might seem slow, but it sticks.
Charging is about being a good steward of your energy. You choose what feeds your body and mind, instead of relying on caffeine, sugar, scrolling, or willpower alone. The more intentional you are, the less you have to rely on external boosts and the more sustainable your change becomes.
How to Charge Your Body Battery
Charging your body battery can be simple. But it needs to be consistent, happening daily if not weekly. Here are actionable ways to build your energy this month:
- Get Consistent Sleep: Aim for a predictable bedtime and wake time most nights. Even 15–30 minutes of consistency helps you reach deep sleep and wake up rested.
- Fuel Before You Caffeinate: Fuel your body with nutrients before you run to artificial energy. It takes resources and nourishment to make energy.
- Walk Without Goals: Walking is one of the best ways to supercharge your body. The drain isn’t the movement. It’s the expectations you set on it. Try incorporating a rhythm of walking with no pace or step standards. Just choose to do it and trust that showing up is enough.
- Eat Nourishing Meals: Everything you consume influences your energy. Instead of viewing food as good or bad, focus on how it affects you. Focus on foods that stabilize energy instead of restricting or spiking blood sugar.
- Try a Five-Minute Reset Ritual: When you’re feeling overly drained and in your head, take a 5-minute break or timeout. Do something simple to recharge. It could be anything from a quick brain dump to a 5-minute power nap.
- Remove One Energy Drain: Getting rid of every energy drain is impossible and not worth your time. But eliminating some is highly beneficial. Identify one obligation, task, or conversation that drains you. Then choose to delete it or delegate it.
- Get Morning Light Exposure: Even a few minutes of sunlight or natural light signals to your body to make energy. The sun is one of your best energy sources. Not to mention, it resets the circadian clock, helping you show up with the most energy throughout your day.
- Host Micro-Rests Throughout the Day: Small pauses, stretching, or deep breathing reset your nervous system and boost your energy, even without requiring a long break. Add simple rhthyms to your life, to create ease and release the burden.
- Say No Earlier: Overexplaining or overcommitting costs energy. A simple “no” protects your charge.
- Consistency Over Intensity: Focus on small, repeatable habits rather than occasional, intense efforts. The most sustainable energy comes from rhythm, not spikes.
These strategies are simple, but they work. The key is consistency. It’s not a once-and-done kind of thing, but a daily need. Pick one or two that feel doable and repeat them daily.
Strategy Is How Fast Becomes Sustainable
Here’s a counterintuitive truth: slowing is fast. Most people clean in January and sprint in February, expecting instant results. Then they wonder why motivation disappears by mid-month. That’s because capacity needs to be built first.
Working slowly but deliberately, within your limits, allows you to build energy, confidence, and consistency that last.
Slow doesn’t mean complacent. It means working at your body’s pace while intentionally expanding your capacity. Capacity and pace must coincide. That’s how momentum happens naturally, without burnout. One charged decision leads to another, and before you know it, change becomes effortless.
Your February Action: One Intentional Choice
Instead of a daunting reset, choose one small action to support your energy each day. It doesn’t have to be the same thing each day, but be mindful to keep your battery charged and to choose to engage more with fills than drains.
It could be going to bed earlier, eating a heartier breakfast, scheduling time for protected walks, doing a five-minute planning ritual, or removing one draining obligation. Repetition matters more than quantity. Small, consistent choices build real energy and momentum.
Remember: if your nervous system sighs reading that, you’re already on the right track. Real change isn’t loud. It’s steady, consistent, and built to fuel you.
The Snowball Effect of Charge
Charge creates momentum. Momentum builds confidence. Confidence makes the next step easier. This is what I call the health snowball. You don’t roll it by forcing yourself or trying harder. You roll it by consistently choosing actions that support your energy.
One small, charged decision leads to another, and suddenly, change is happening without effort.
If it feels like everyone else is ahead, remember that most people are running on borrowed energy. You’re building a system that lasts. Don’t try to prove anything this month; instead, be diligent in preparing your body, mind, and life to sustain the change you want.
The 5-Day Power-Up Challenge
To make February actionable, try this simple five-day challenge:
Day 1: Notice Your Energy. How charged is your body battery? Observe when you feel energized or drained. Awareness is the first step toward stewardship.
Day 2: Fuel Before Stimulation. Before you reach for caffeine or scroll on your phone, have a glass of water, eat a healthy meal, or spend time in the sun.
Day 3: Add One Supportive Habit. Go to bed earlier, take a walk, or do a five-minute reset ritual. Keep it simple.
Day 4: Remove One Energy Drain. Delay, delegate, or delete one draining task or obligation from your life this week.
Day 5: Lock in Your Pattern. What habit this week made life easier? Remind yourself of it, use it, protect it, repeat it, and build from it.
It’s the small, intentional steps that compound into sustainable change.
Words to Remember This Month
Charge your battery first, then move. Let ease be your guide. Slow is how fast becomes sustainable. Your body doesn’t need fixing. It needs support. Energy is yours to steward. Real change begins quietly, steadily, and charged.
February isn’t about proving anything to anyone. It’s about nurturing yourself, building sustainable energy, and preparing to hold the life you want. Slow down. Charge up. And trust that the direction you’re walking toward will meet you with exactly what you need.
Let the Nourished Planner be your guide to boosting your energy and planning your life in a way that fills you, not drains you. It’s one daily tool that can support you right where you are.